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Love Jennifer planted 3 trees in memory of Deborah West
Tuesday, November 26, 2024
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Tom C. planted 3 trees in memory of Deborah West
Tuesday, November 5, 2024
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Joani Bickley posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 26, 2024
When I learned that your mom was sick, my heart broke for you… When I learned there was nothing to cure her, it shattered. I watched you become the mother. I watched you become strong and give unconditionally to the woman who gave unconditionally to you as a child. I watched the roles reverse… I saw my best friend become the most beautiful caregiver I have ever known. You became the strength and independence she was and modeled for you all along. When we were young, we swore we would never become like our mothers…but all along, the gift was that we were becoming all of the best parts of them. And Jen, that is exactly what you have grown into. The best version of yourself through tremendous loss, and the strongest pieces of her weaved in. The moments with your mom that were the hardest will eventually become the sweetest memories in time, I promise, even though it doesn’t feel that way right now. Carry that all with you as you navigate your grief. And lean on me, we are family… I love you and am proud of you…and I know Debbie is as she watches over you each and every day.
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Jason Gehris posted a symbolic gesture
Friday, November 22, 2024
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Debbie,
You certainly exhisted with purpose and passion. You did it your way, with complete confidence, and I can only admire that. I truly respect and appreciate you for being an example of someone who really lived fully. It's rare and becoming even more rare.
Thank you for being a community leader and for all you did while you were here to lift people up. Thank you for fighting for our country. Thank you for being a pillar of personal strength and endurance and for guiding those in your circle with experienced wisdom. Your strength was only matched by your quick wit. Sorry about that screen door and being too loud in the garage!!
I didnt get the chance to say those things when you were here, but I hope you get this energy and message of love and appreciation now. It is my belief that death is simply a doorway home for your soul. I know that you will still be sending light, power, and strength. Say hello to Richard.
I knew Debbie as a long time friend of her Daughter, Jen. She was always such a strong presence. When she was in the room you felt it and respected it.
At Jens wedding it was inspiring to see her exhibit such stoic dignity. I helped her to her seat that night, and I'm thankful I had those few moments and conversation.
I believe it was her stubborn refusal to lose that kept her with us as long as she fought. But she didn't lose, she's just moved on to a new place to thrive.
The work Debbie did in the community will be hard to replace. She did so much. She was one of those people who you often wonder how it was all even possible, and that's likely why Jen is also one of those people. Debbie just found the time and the energy and was that pillar people needed. When I would ask Jen how her mom was doing , through her illness, I would get back a list of activities that made me, not on chemo, tired. She was just really living fully and she did it fiercely just like Debbie always would. I can't say that enough.
It'll be wierd not asking Jen about her, but I can always hope I get messages from her side of the universe. Maybe even a few of Debbies hard swift kicks in the right direction!
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Tim Caton posted a condolence
Saturday, November 16, 2024
The crazy thing about life is: the person we are is so often defined as whom we leave behind.
Jenn is Debbie's legacy. While it wasn't all easy, the clear intensity between these two women has shaped much of whom Jenn is today. Her strength, fortitude, that raw power. Arguably, stubbornness. And one hell of a wit; the one common takeaway just about everyone has from both Debbie and Jenn: "She might be the smartest damn person on the planet."
Debbie was one hell of a tough woman. Her life wasn't easy, she lived tough, and experienced some of the roughest things any person should have to survive. Debbie may also have been one of the two most stubborn people I've ever met, which is probably why she and my dad seemed to get along.
We have lost Debbie – and Richard. But she has left us a special blend of strength, wit and intensity – her daughter.
Thanks, Debbie.
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Robin West posted a condolence
Friday, November 15, 2024
I've always loved Debbie's laugh, and thats what I've missed over the years when time and distance separated us. Her laughter was genuine and from deep within causing us to get silly at times. Deb loved her children fiercely, and her love for Jen and Rich always shone in her beautiful smile. Rest well, my friend, I'll see you again one day.
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Jean Hess posted a condolence
Friday, November 15, 2024
Deb and I were friends for 60+ years. She was a great friend and oh so many memories. One of my favorite memories was when we were in her car going somewhere, she had this car that for some reason the steering wheel came off, I said something about her driving and she handed me the steering wheel and said " if you don't like the way I'm driving here you drive" and handed me the steering wheel.
I'm really going to miss one of my oldest and dearest friends.❤️
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Jen Austin posted a condolence
Friday, November 15, 2024
I am so sorry to see you gone Ms. Deb! I enjoyed our conversations on Jen’s front porch. We are all reassured that you are now resting and out of pain and reunited with family on the other side. ❤️❤️ RIP
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Andrea White posted a condolence
Friday, November 15, 2024
Debbie and I were friends for many years even after she moved to New Jersey. She lived such a full life, Keeping her friends close and involved. So many experiences I’m sure many people had with her that will live on Forever. She is dearly missed.
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Art Faint posted a condolence
Friday, November 15, 2024
Debbie was a special person and a very loyal supporter of our American Legion Post. I don’t know if you know it, but she coordinated with The Cat’s Meow company to have a wood cutout of our Post’s building as part of that company’s collection of notable buildings. She designed the cutout and on the back provided the descriptive information. We were then able to sell the cutout as part of our fundraising activities. Besides her position as an active member of our executive committee as a trustee and service officer, she also supported our Post’s many activities and fundraising programs. We were very fortunate to have had her as a member. Best to you, Art Faint
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Anonymous planted a tree in memory of Deborah West
Thursday, November 14, 2024
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Jenell Tasker posted a condolence
Thursday, November 14, 2024
Momma Debbie.. I am so glad I got to know you and can't begin to tell you how much I appreciated our talks on the phone. I will always treasure the scarf you made me when my son was in the Army and the cute washcloth with a bone on it for my Dixie. Most of all I have to thank you for giving me the best friend I could ever ask for. You were always a tough cookie and I admired that but you also made your beautiful daughter the strong amazing woman she is today and that above all I am grateful for. I know you are in heaven flying high as a beautiful angel. Thank you for loving me. I will always love and remember you ❤️ Love Jenell
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Thursday, November 14, 2024
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Christine Gornick posted a condolence
Thursday, November 14, 2024
Our deepest sympathies for the loss of your mother. May she be resting in the arms of Jesus, free of pain. May her presence always be felt and her love continue to surround you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Christine and Joseph Gornick
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Ginny Kokemor planted a tree in memory of Deborah West
Wednesday, November 13, 2024
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Ginny Kokemor posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 13, 2024
Hi didn’t really meet you but what Jenny told me about you. You sound like you were an awesome person god bless you and you are free from pain now . Ginny Kokemor
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Sara Galica posted a condolence
Friday, July 12, 2024
Q: What will you never forget about Deborah?
A: I will never forget how strong she was. That was my 1st and forever impression of Debbie. Every time I saw Debbie at the senior center, no matter what we talked about she had this strength in her voice and words that made me admire and look up to her with awe. She helped countless friends at the center, teaching the knitting, getting them the patterns they were looking for all the while she was taking great care of her Dad. The 2 of them were always a ray of sunshine to see walking through the doors of that center. I am honored to say I knew Debbie West.
To her family, I am so sorry and sad for your loss. I can't imagine the hole her passing has left behind. Her kids were her life!
Sincerely, Sara G
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Thursday, July 11, 2024
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Dawn Proud uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, July 10, 2024
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I met Debbie about 5 years ago , when she would bring scrappy in to get groomed . We would chat when she came in , but nothing crazy . These past 2 years I got
Close to her and we would talk more and more as time went on . She had me laughing with some of the things that would come out of her mouth . She didn’t care what she said , would follow it up with I’m sorry I’m just saying . Then I started helping out with one of her prized possessions Scrappy , who she loved so much . When he came for visits she would call and check on him every day, She was a strong women and it was hard for her to accept help with things , but Scrappy was well taken care of and will be forever. She had some quick one liners. I will always remember our last conversation, alrleady miss her 5-6 calls a day . I would talk to her for hours , just because she wanted to talk . I miss her and I know Scrappy misses her too .
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Tuesday, July 9, 2024
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