Pamela Ann Hope Perloff, 72, of Villas, NJ, passed away on October 17, 2025, surrounded by the love of her family. Pam was a proud U.S. Army veteran who served her country with honor before dedicating her life to her family and community.

Pam was smart, witty, and had the kind of sarcasm that could make anyone laugh — even when they were the target of it. She loved knitting and sewing, playing quizzo, and heading to Puerto Rico whenever she could. She never met a board game she didn’t like, kept up with the news as if she were part of the broadcast, and showed her love best through the meals she cooked for friends and family.

Her greatest pride, though, wasn’t in her many talents but in her family. Pam was a devoted sister, mother, and Nana — roles she poured her heart into every single day. She is survived by her two sons, Bryan (Kristyn) and Sean (Marguerite); her eight grandchildren who adored their Nana; and her four sisters, who will miss her fierce love and unmatched sarcasm. 

She’s finally reunited with the love of her life, Michael J. Perloff — and we can only imagine the reunion filled with laughter, love and many memories. 

Pam will be remembered for her quick wit, her warmth, and the love she poured into everyone lucky enough to know her.  Her laughter and love will forever echo in the hearts of those she left behind

Funeral services will be held on Monday, October 27, 2025, at 11:00 a.m. at the chapel located at the VA Cemetery at 127 Crest Haven Rd., Cape May Court House, NJ 08210, with burial immediately following.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Tunnels to Towers, an organization Pam deeply respected by clicking on the link on this website.